Episode 96

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14th Sep 2026

The Leader Who Got You Here May Hold You Back

What made you successful so far still matters. But as your responsibilities grow, the demands of leadership change — and the capabilities you need have to change with them.

In this episode of Scaling New Heights, Nick Sellers explores why leadership progression is not simply about becoming better at what you already do well. It often means broadening your competence, becoming comfortable with being inexperienced again, and letting go of parts of your leadership identity that previously brought you success.

Nick reflects on Marshall Goldsmith’s well-known phrase, “What got you here won’t get you there,” and considers what that means in practice for leaders whose roles are becoming broader, less certain and more complex.

He explores why senior leaders can retreat towards familiar work when under pressure, why discomfort does not necessarily mean you are incapable, and how leadership increasingly involves working without a ready-made playbook.

The episode closes with three questions to help you consider what the next stage of your own leadership might require.

In this episode:

00:00 Welcome to Scaling New Heights

00:22 What Got You Here

01:50 When the Job Changes

03:10 Discomfort Means Growth

04:41 The Familiarity Trap

05:42 Letting Go of Identity

06:22 Leading Without a Playbook

07:45 Three Reflection Questions

08:38 Next Level Invitation

08:57 Subscribe and Release Schedule

Three questions to reflect on:

  1. What does the next version of my role require from me that I have not yet had to develop?
  2. Where am I retreating to familiar work because it makes me feel competent?
  3. What discomfort am I currently treating as a problem that might actually be a valuable part of my development?

If you are at a transition point where what worked before no longer feels quite enough, having somewhere to think it through properly can help. You can find details of how to have that conversation with Nick in the links below.

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About the Podcast

Scaling New Heights: Leadership at the Next Level
Taking Leaders Beyond Limits, One Step at a Time
In Scaling New Heights: Leadership at the Next Level, we guide business leaders and entrepreneurs from overwhelm and “stuck” to new heights of success and achievement. Through insightful interviews, expert advice, and actionable strategies, this podcast is your go-to resource for breaking out of chaos and elevating your leadership. Whether you’re navigating tough decisions, managing fast growth, or striving for work-life balance, we help you unlock your potential and develop the mindset needed to excel. Join us as we share stories and insights from executive and business coaching, and learn how you can take your leadership to the next level.

About your host

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Nick Sellers

Even leaders need a helping hand to achieve their potential. I bring decades of corporate experience and a keen interest in people to my coaching and mentoring activities. And I really like to help those who want to grow and develop.
For more information, you can find me on LinkedIn and schedule a quick call.